posted 01-22-2003 03:35 PM
TDR - Hi again, Hi M_P,
Just wondering, does 'not welcome anymore' mean INS hassles and registration and things like that? Or did it mean that regular people treated you with prejudice and hostility?
The people (at least the people I know) where super nice post 9/11 and some even suggested I stay with them until the subsequent wave of hate crimes ended. Generally everone was cool about it.
But here's what happened: I was changing schools because I was going to USC for my PhD. I dropped by Egypt in the summer to say hi to my friends and applied for a new visa (mine is valid till 2005, but you should apply for a new one if you intend to go to a different school.) I applied on June 18th, and the US consulate responded that they have to perform a security check on me first. I have always had an American visa since I was 10, so I figured it would be easy for them to do that. Anyway, to make a really long story short, June ended, July ended, and August ended. By the end of August, USC canceled my funding source, which was a teaching assistantship, because I was not there when the semester started and therefore cant assist in anything. Having no funding meant that its impossible to go. Luckily, I had applied to McGill in Canada. I went to the Candain consulate in early September, got a visa in 5 days, then went to Montreal to attend McGill.
Then, the US sent me an email in November, saying they finished the security check and I can get a new visa, which is soooo ridiculous because in the documents I provided it says that this student cant come any later than August 16. But anyway, it took them 160 days to decide on giving me a new visa, eventhough I had one that I could use to enter the US if I was still going to my old school!
But in hindsight, with the recent addition (6 days ago) of Egypt to the list of countries whose citezens have to undergo this special registeration thing, maybe it's better that I'm not at the US currently - I could have been detained or something for god knows what.
Also you mentioned your academic career. What are you studying? What do you see for yourself in the future?
I'm studying computer science. I mainly work on artificial intelligence. Thats why I wanted to go to USC. They have one of the best AI programs. After the PhD, I'm definitely going into academia, though still not sure where - of course my first choice was the US, now probably Europe. I wil also try to maintain a close tie with Egypt as well.
Its riduculous for Christians to fight Muslims both thinking they are doing so with God on their side. And then claim religion is about brotherhood. We should instead be polarized along lines of rabid and unthinking fundamentalists vs humanitarians. Just my opinion.
I think this should be everybody's opinion! But it seems that people enjoy having teams and the whole mentality of my team is better than yours thing; good in sports, senseless in life. But for some people, the sense of wanting to belong to something can easily blind them from seeing things in the right way. I guess its human nature, I'd get mad at anybody who asserts that a Martin is better than a Taylor and all my clothes have McGill all over them, it cant be easily avoided.
They (TDR means Jewish folks) influence our politicians and policy because they are a large voting block and have weatlth and power. I think Americans are also offended by Arafat and his position that terror tactics are justified and Israel has no right to exist.
To me, this guy is a prime example of every thing thats wrong with the middle east. An old, sick guy (he has Parkinson's) who has fully demonstrated his inability to improve the situation. BUT the people still want him to be their leader!!!! It's just so weird. I dont understand it and cant explain it to you. But this is a trend in all arab countries. The rulers are some sort of demi-gods, and can only be replaced if they die or get killed (I remember I once asked my mom 'Hey - Mubarak has been president for so long, dont you think we should have another president? And she says 'naaah, maybe we'll get somebody who will be worse than him', I think this story says a lot.) Arafat would blame everything on the Israelis, who of course are making things hard, but if you're smart enough you should be able to deal with that. He can only whine about it. Totally incompetent.
Sometimes you think that the animosities go back to the Roman occupation and will never be resolved. Can they live together? What will it take?
I dont know. Israel is a first world country, Palestine is a third world 'country'. They live on the same land and have a huge, huge gap between them in terms of everything else. It will not be resolved in our life time; we will not see it. But maybe we can set them in motion towards it.
We truly cannot understand something like the Taliban. A mindset from the 14th century..we don’t understand the fierce loyalty of radical Muslims. Martyrdom. And the hatred and anger. Fatwahs that seem to resemble Mafia contracts for sins against the quran.
Ignorance is the reason. Under-education and lack of economic opportunities. If I dont have a job and cant read a book and dont appreciate music and dont have any sense of aesthetics (because perhaps I didnt have a chance to refine my senses growing up and worrying about lunch everyday) then I might as well become a terrorist or an extremist or something that will make me show the world than I'm not a nobody as you all think and can influence your life more than you can imagine. Even more, I'm ideologically better than you and you're wrong and I'm right. Self-delusion at its finest. I strongly doubt Khomeini ever read The satanic verses. But giving a mafia contract to kill Rushdie will make everybody know the name Khomeini throughout the world.
I'm wondering if we should even try to help people we consider 'backward' to become more progressive. Or if we just need to try and understand them and let them be?
Well, from the last point, you can see that the solution would be to educate these people and expose them to the world. How to do that I dont know. But remember, most of these middle eastern countries have been occupied by the British, French, or whatever. Egypt (which has been occupied by both
) for instance has been a country run by its own people for only 50 years now. Its still in its infancy. The people use the term democracy but dont know what it means. These places need to be helped, education is one good way to go about that.
Lets just bomb them and that'll show 'em. I don't think they understand who 'them' is.
Definitely. And the backlash would be just incredible. More terrorists created = More chances one of them will get through and inflict damage. Then we'll start the cycle all over again. Stupid.
What sort of music do you like?
Mostly folk and rock. Dylan, Leonard Cohen, Elliot Smith, Neil Young..genrally anybody with an acoustic guitar making simple songs. And as I mentioned, I'm a religious follower of Lennon and McCartney. I know the chords to every single Beatles song except 'The night before' on 'Help!' Jazz, I always had the idea I'll like it when I get older
I could ask a hundred more questions, but I'll quit.
It was quite enjoyable for me. Glad there were others who liked it as well.
Take care,
--m
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